“We were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character”
After completing the Fifth Step with our sponsors, recognizing and disclosing the exact nature of our wrongs, a realization sets in: without changing our destructive behaviors we cannot experience the full benefits of the recovery program. In Step Six, a sense of humility is developed in order to see ourselves more clearly. We have seen the wrongs we have committed and how they have harmed ourselves and others when we acted out our defects of character. We begin to see patterns to our behaviors and also realize that we are likely to act on the same defects repeatedly. As we continue with our addiction recovery, in Step Six we become entirely ready to have our defects of character removed, without reservations. The concept of becoming entirely ready does not happen suddenly. It is a process which can take the course of one’s lifetime.
We have to identify, recognize and accept our defects of character before we can be willing to have a power greater than ourselves remove them.
Step Six is a step of willingness and action that prepares us for a launch to a higher level of consciousness. “We found that the higher our drugs took us, the lower they brought us” NA Basic Text, Step Three, page 24 (Fourth Edition). In other words, the more intoxicated one gets, the more toxic one becomes.
A very important way to identify character defects is by being receptive to the constructive feedback of others, particularly when we offend them with our behaviors.
Here are some common examples of character defects:
- false pride
There will most likely be layers upon layers of negative behaviors that point to these defects. “When working this step it is important to remember that we are human and should not place unrealistic expectations on ourselves,” NA Basic Text, page 33 fourth edition.
Reciting this prayer during times of despair or when it seems to be taking a long time to reach a desired goal can help sustain us and renewing our willingness to have our character defects removed.
Sixth Step Prayer
I am ready for Your help in removing from me the defects of character which I now realize are an obstacle to my recovery. Help me to continue being honest with myself and guide me toward spiritual and mental health.
New Hope Recovery Center, Chicago’s premier alcohol and drug addiction facility, offers treatment to those addicted to drugs or alcohol and their families.
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Written By: New Hope Recovery Center
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